August 01, 2020 1 min read 2 Comments

I Had a miscarriage back in November and ever since then I've been struggling to get pregnant and i'm loosing hope, I ask God why '? why me ? i'm a good person I pray read the bible , I just want to know why

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August 16, 2020

Hi I had a similar experience. Lost my baby at 7 weeks in June and I was completely devastated. I still grieve from time to time and yes I had the why and why me questions. I even wondered if it’s because of a sin I committed.

Then my husband reminded me of this passage in John about the blind man.

John 9:3 (ESV)
Jesus answered, “It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him.

It’s not an easy journey but know that our God can do miracles and He’s watching over you and me, and all of us who are on this journey. Praying for you.


August 03, 2020

Hi, Gladys! My name is Jocelyn and I live in North Carolina. I read your comment and I am completely in your shoes. My husband is older (48) and I am 33. We have been trying for a baby for at least the past two years. I was surprised when I got 7 pregnancy tests back in May of this year. My husband and I were over the moon! That pregnancy ended with a miscarriage at 6 weeks. Although early on, I was enraged and completely heartbroken because it was like I finally got pregnant and then in a blink of an eye it was gone. My husband and I have been trying again (although it’s been two months) but we are still not successful. I can completely understand the feelings of, “why me?” and “I’m a good person”. I don’t want a whole family full of kids, I just want one baby and I will be happy but that is feeling further and further away! I will be thinking about you and sending positive thoughts your way! :)

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